Things can start to get a little rough, and you’re unsure how to bring the spark back. You might be feeling as if you don’t know what to get him, and he’s not making an effort either. If you’re feeling a little worried about your relationship and gifts, we got you covered.

Here are a few suggestions that you can think about for gifts for your partner this Christmas.

  1. A handwritten letter

This is a great Christmas gift you can give to your boyfriend this year. Handwritten letters are something that you can easily personalize. Make this unique by taking his favorite holiday memory and describing it in detail. Include how certain moments have made you feel, how you felt when you first met, or even things he has done for you that make your heart flutter.

You might also include a short poem as a gift to him this Christmas.

Verdict: Nice

  1. Cook a meal

This is a lovely surprise gift – something that you can make together. So pick up some ingredients, light a fire and prepare something special together. This will also be one of the most memorable Christmas gifts as there is nothing like cooking with your love and making dinner together.

Spice it up a little by putting up a simple bet – by setting a time limit, say 15 minutes and have the winner choose the menu and cook the meal together.

Verdict: Naughty

  1. Take a vacation (with him)

Who says that you need to spend Christmas in your home town? Instead, take a vacation, and make it a special one by spending the season with your special one. You can go to places like family attractions or simply head out for a romantic vacation on your own.

Or, if you can’t afford to do the extravagant thing this year, still give him a surprise gift. Consider something like a souvenir or memento that he can make use of on his own.

Verdict: Nice

  1. Plan a surprise date night

This is something that you can do on Christmas eve. It’s going to be hard to think of special gifts for a boyfriend at times like this, but there are still a few things that you can do.

You can plan a couple’s date for this evening. You can talk about and brainstorm about fun things to do together during the evening, or you can decide to go out just on your own as a couple. Sometimes it’s the simple things that make a difference in your relationship.

Verdict: Naughty

  1. Give him your time

One of the greatest Christmas gifts you can give to him is your time. There are so many activities in the world, but sometimes we forget about one simple thing — each other. Of course, materials and gifts are nice, but what’s even better is time spent together.

If you need to take the time to talk to your partner or spend time with him, then the best Christmas gift will be your time.

Verdict: Nice


A marriage is a partnership, and it is better to take some time to plan and prepare for Christmas when the time comes. The most important thing that you need to remember is that giving gifts to someone in your life means a lot, but taking time with your partner is important.